Why I asked? Why? I am joking, but seriously, the friend that I talked about in my last blog has turned a 360. He is back with that girl. Here goes the loop. You know. They will break up again and again and always get back together. That loop that many people get into, but why do they?
My guess is that they get mad and make a dumb mistake. They think they can not stand the other person, but after time goes by, they start hurting. They start craving for the other one. Do you follow the hurt or the mind? We all have contradicted ourselves with these two parts. We hear God in our hearts, so to a point, we should listen to it.
In the end, I understand my friend. I have been there before. You always fight with them, but in the end, you still have feelings. Feelings that will not go away. Habits that die hard. People give in to what is less painful sometimes...... I am not saying what he did is wrong, but it is up to him and his life. Honestly, I would have done the same thing.
My relfection is about the heart and mind. I and we must reflect upon it from time to time. We use one if not both everyday. How do we balance the two. That is up to me for my problems, and you for yours. Meaning, some people might have problems that require more thinking than heart.
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Just keep praying for him and in the meantime, support the choice that he has made.
gah i hate couples that break up and get back togeher over and over.. over rated
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