This world is full of twists and turns of which many we do not like. In our eyes, this circumstance is very important, but to the world it is not even seen. For example, have you noticed after you failed highschool that no one really notices. I mean that when you are feeling so depressed and discouraged, and you are walking down the street. You expect people to understand or go easier on you because you failed. A word to the wise is that not many people will know or even care.
I have a point to the previous paragraph. I know that it sounds dark and depressing. It is a round about way of soothing my friends wounds. This past weekend my good friend, Josh, left his girlfriend. I know, I know it is just a small thing, but just go with it for now. They broke the hard bonds of "love" between each other. It was thought the best then, but do they think that now?
I have experienced this before. I feel sympathy for him. You have one that you think the whole world of. You love them from the pit of your heart and, you never want to let go. Not a minute goes by without a thought of them. Every breathe you take is a breathe for them. You strive on them and for them. You do everything in your power to make them happy regardless what it does to you. Then, you wake up one day and see either what you have become or that they have become something you do not like. Maybe even one day you have a fight and think you would be better alone. In the end, some say that you should just move on, and it will be better. As his friend, I could not tell him that. I told him to look deep inside his heart. I asked him would he be happier with or without her. Only he can make the ultimate decision. He was looking for me to make up his mind, but ole chance would not oblige.
Even though my friend's world stopped that day, the real world keeps spinning, and everything will be O. K. (P.S. I do know that he is still young, and maybe that advice should be for someone older who life could be changed by that relationship to a further extent. That is my reasoning on how to help him at that moment.)
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4 comments:
I really enjoyed reading your blogg. I think it was a good thing that you are letting him make his own mind up, that you are not doing that for him.
your right, the world does keep spinning regardless of what we may want. but in the in end it all turns out okay.
I really enjoy your blogs! I must say I have yet to feel that way about someone or be felt about that way...can't wait...or can I?? Haha
i think the advice you gave was perfectly said. you think you want something one minute, and the next minute you're not so sure. life goes on whether we're ready for it to or not.
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